I have a problem. Whenever i find out that a guy likes me i get sorta scared. i mean i want guys to ask me out, but im either afraid to say no, or dont have the guts to say yes, even if i do like him. I want guys to like me but i just need guts and confidence & of course advice.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bitterxsweet answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:55 pm: One word: Relax! If a guy asks you out, of course you`ll be sort of nervous, but think about it.. if he asks you out, he must like you, so therefore he'd want you to say yes, so just go for it if you like him back! it could end up being a really good, fun relationship. if you dont like him, just say something like "thats really sweet, but i kind of have my eye on someone else [even if you dont] and i think me and you would be better as friends for awhile". yeah, itll hurt, but thats life. everyone gets hurt sometimes, but they get over it. dont feel bad. i thought id be the same way, but when i guy asked me out and i knew i didnt like him and never would, i had no problem saying no. and guess what, he's wayyy over it. lol. most guys arent like girls anyway, theyre not gonna be burned and depressed forever. theyll hop right back up in a weeks time. just be friendly and open up, and im sure youll be fine. good luck =] [ bitterxsweet's advice column | Ask bitterxsweet A Question ]
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