ok so i have been friends with this boy since preschool. were now freshman in highschool. and well i was absent one day and my ex boyfriend talked to him and went to my best friend who i have also known since preschool and told here that richie said he liked me. so my friend that day went to him (their also friends since preschool) and asked him and of course he denied it but he was blushing liek crazy. so the next day i came back and i went to talk to him and im liek ehy whats up? and the normal stuff. and he was smiling the whole entire time. btu then yet he always says he hates me. so i went back to my friends at lunch and then my bff went to him and asked and he denied it again but was blushing like crazy. then a couple of days ago i was walking home and i passed him and he was smiling so much. but he wont admit that he does or if he doesnt. and also he was very upset when iw ent out with my ex boyfriend. hes like hes not good for you you could do better. and hes also the kindof person where he will be scared to go out with me becuase it might ruin our friendship. but im good at keeping friendships if we had one before. so do you think he likes me or? and im not going to go and ask him. i dont have the guts. should i get my hopes up that he does or? and all my friends have always been saying that we would be soo cute together. and at my church we have this group of 4. me my best friend and him and this other guy. well my best friend is going out with the other guy. and ever since we were in the 3rd grade everyone at the church is like ok your gonna marry him and shes gonna marry the other guy. and so far half of that is right. and i sorta want it to come true. but im not sure. im so confused.
solightninglove answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:00 pm: i think that if you like him, you should tell him. it sounds to me like he likes you back. if he cant help smiling around you. and if you cant tell him ask if he wants to hang out sometime. no pressure just see what he says. if hes enthusiastic about hanging out with you then he probably likes you. im no expert on guys. and this one sounds like a confusing one, but it sounds to me like you two could have a great relationship. if he hated you, he wouldnt smile so much around you right? just take your time thinking about it and good luck deciding on what to do. xx -sara [ solightninglove's advice column | Ask solightninglove A Question ]
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