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Question Posted Friday April 13 2007, 12:27 am

So There is this guy that i really like..Lets just say his name is Justin. Justin and his girlfriend broke up,and we dated in the past. Tomorrow we are hanging out at night and no ones going to be home and i know we will end up, well having sex. the thing is though i'm nervous about it. I'm totally ready for it because im totally comfortable with Justin, Any suggetion on how to calm the nerves. Maybe how to make it actually good..haha i know this is weird but i need some help and all my sibs are boys and my mom would flip.

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wlover answered Monday May 14 2007, 2:06 pm:
Well maybe your nervous because of wondering hows it going to be?. If your comfortable with him then theres no need to worry!but make sure you and him are totally satisfied, make sure you put on sexy underwear and clothes , stuff that would turn him on alot and make sure even if your a girl that you bring your own protection too,even thou your comfortable with him using a condom is very necessary. Hope i was helpful, if need more advice (im) me,blknspice@y

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christina answered Friday April 13 2007, 7:18 am:
Well, are you scared? You could be scared & think you're nervous. But everyone can get nervous before sex simply because it's a BIG gesture to take, and it's not something to take lightly. Sex is a huge decisiom. If you're scared, you're definitely not ready. I was completely comfortable with my ex, and before we had sex I would tell him I was nervous but ready, and then at the last minute, I'd change my mind & tell him "Oh, no nevermind I can't." He'd get pissed, but I wasn't ready. When we finally did I was okay, and out of the regrets I have, this is one of them. I only regret two things.

I'm not sure how old you are, so I'm not sure if I should advise you to wait or not. If you're young [less than 17], I am gonna advise you to wait because life is not about sex or boys. I cannot tell you not to have sex [since you'll probably go off & do it anyways], but I can help you rethink it. But just if you do have sex, please use double protection. I don't mean two condoms, but use a condom & birth control. Then again, it's best you don't have sex in case your mom & brothers were to come home early & find you. Your brothers would probably kill him & rip his penis off, and your mom would probably stick a cork in your vag. Haha, sorry if that sounds scary. Just be careful, and use protection.

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