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im 16, not a baby.
sorry its long
Me and my mom have a really good relationship We never fight or anything i love it. But the only thing is i dont think she trusts me and she is really protective. I think its because im the youngest in my whole family, like cousins and nephews and everything. I never lie to her because i dont feel the need to and she knows it(plus if i did she would probably catch me anyway and it would be worse) But my mom never lets me go out and do fun things. She will let me go out locally because i live in a small area. But like if i want to go to concert in the city she wont et me unless there is "adult supervision" She never did that to my sister! Or if i wanna go vist my friend because she lives 4 hours away my mom wont let me take the bus over there so i never get to see her. What can i do to get my mom to let me go out and have fun?
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You need to keep up responsible behavior, like you already have. You're mom probably learned from her mistakes she made with your sister, and wants to make you more safe. Going dangerous places(bus,concert) by yourself isn't a great idea, so your mom is right there. Ask though if your big sister or another responsible person can tag along with you. Ask your mom how you could be able to go, and if she says only with an adult, ask if she can go shopping or something while you have fun. Or ask if another adult you like could go with you. Hang in there, its for your own good.
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You just have to sit down and talk to your mom about it and try and make her understand you wont go and do something dumb. Try and help around the house more and do stuff when you are not told. let her see that she can trust you.
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