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i dont want to hide anymore
okay so i have 2 best friends. a girl and a guy. me and my girl best friend are closer and we tell each other everything except i'm keeping a huge secret from her and i don't want to but i don't know how to tell her. the thing is that me and my guy best friend recently started a friends with benefits relationship that is moving quite quickly, we both like each other we're just not dating. and he just got dumped by his ex, who is also a good friend of the 3 of us. i haven't told my friend about my relationship because i know she'll ask when it started, and the truth is it started back when he was with his gf, and since she's a friend of ours im afraid it'll start a whole big thing. it's possible that i could just start off by telling her that i like my guy best friend and leave out the whole friends with benefits part of it but i know ill still feel guilty about not telling her because i know she tells me everything about her relationships. what should i do? this is really hard on me
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I'd say you should tell your friend because if she tells you everything it's kinda unfair for you not to tell her. If she finds out somehow without you telling her, it'll start an even bigger thing. Plus I'm sure if you ask her she'll make sure his ex never finds out, if you're worried at all about that.
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you should tell her you know what if you tell her and she is like oh my gosh i cant believe you did that i am not your friend anymore than she was never your freind really in the first place i mean if you want to see the rainbow you have to fight the rain!!!
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I'd advise telling your friend because keeping her in the dark about this could just relle hurt her. If she is as good a friend as you think she is, she might be a little mad, but she'll understand, and if you trust her she'll probally keep it quite. I'd also recommend telling the other girl too because it is unfair to her to not know. Good luck hunn!
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