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hard breakup
my age = 18
his age = 25
after 8 months of relationship, i broke it off 'cause
a - my parents weren't okay with him being my bf
b - he was too old/i kinda agreed too
c - he was causing too much pressure on me.
ok, so he's not educated - at all. he dropped out of highschool and started working straightaway. now he's a truck driver type of thing, i never really knew what he does for work.
he has this mentality that's very similar to the following: you go up to him telling him about your drinking problem and he answers "just stop ... for me". he's sweet and all that, but he uses this weapon to make me go back to him: he cries. and he keeps on going like 'i know i should be a man but *sniff sniff* i just love you ...' and i keep going back to him.
today i had enough and broke it off for good. i just can't have a normal life with him when he's too closeminded and stuff.
how do i tell him to move on without hurting his feelings?
i'm absolutely fine with being single. he was my first bf ever and i have no regrets. i just want to tell him to piss off - in a nice way =(.
i know i sound very bitchy but i just want him to let me go - for gooooood!
thanks in advance, sorry if i made this too long.
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ummm, ok. It sounds like this guy is playing you for a sucker. No offense. But come on. The guy is 25,for pity's sake. He might be you first bf, but do you honestly think, that you're his first gf?
He's probobly had more girls than you've had birthdays. You have to end it now if you want to before it ruins your life. "The One" is out there, waiting, while your trying to break it off with this guy.If you ever had a solid marriage to this guy even, you'd be the one supporting you guys. He's uneducated, and that's his tough luck. You can do better. Plus, he's too old for you. Trust me, you can do better. But when you say it's over for good, do it in a public place. You never know when he might just take a right or left at you to make himself feel better. and trust me, you don't want to be caught alone in a sitch like that. (right/left=punch) Maybe that's over reacting. still, just to be safe
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just tell him that you dont have the same feelings anymore and that you wish it could work out but its not and say that you need time for yourself and it may be a long time so he just needs to move on and just say sorry that your feelings changed and just say im to young for you and this wouldnt work out you need someone more then me.
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