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Which guys is right?
Ok...so there are two guys that i like (and that like me). I've never really had a real boyfriend...like i've had middle school boyfriends...but those dont really count. Ok so i'm kind of "inexpierienced" or so to speak. LIke i've made out and what not..but not really beyond that. One guy, Josh, is really hot, and he is really 'experienced" like i know he's done a lot, and the other guy, tom, i think is more like inexperienced like me. Like i'm popular, but i'm kind of known as the "nice girl". Ok, so at first i just wanted to go out with Josh, but now i'm thinking maybe i should go out with Tom, because i think he would be more like me. Because i'm not really ready to go that far yet...i dont think.
Who do you think i should go out with? Please give me your honest oppinions. I'm just worried that Josh is going to expect me to go farther...but maybe not (he is kind of like the School flirt or so to speak)
THanks so much for any advice you can give me :)
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I think that you should chose the one that you felt more comfortable with. I think in your case it would be Tom. But, if you like Josh more than you do Tom, then go for Josh. Let your heart decide. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do, and if Josh is really a good guy then he would understand that you aren't that ready to go farther. And wouldn't it be kind of nice to have someone more expirienced to to go farther with? Tom I am sure would make a great bf as well, but he doesn't have as much expirience as Josh, so you might not enjoy(when you are ready) going farther with him because of that reason. If I were you, I would probably go for Josh. But make sure that you dont do anything that you don't want to do.
Good Luck,
Nicole x0x
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tom. deffinetly tom.
Look Josh seems like more like a lust for you and those grow old really fast esp. if he's the school flirt, jeoulousy will come in the picture.
Tom seems so much nicer and seems like the type of guy who would treat you better and respect you.
go with tom.
hope i helped!
<3
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Don't worry about what you and your future bf will be doing in the future, because both of you can decide how far you want to go then. Pick the guy you like more. The guy that has better qualities. The guy that makes your heart jump. The guy that really cares about you. You cant go wrong with the "flutter test"
Take a breath, zone out, and than think of one of the guys. Did your stomach flutter? You really like him :)
Good luck
-Abby
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