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my friend
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other. my life is very messed up i hate it hes all i really had.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
we still havent talked were bffs. what should i do?
i wrote this Q last week and this happened last week and still nothing
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it really depends on what is in your heart. if you really do like him, and you really want to go out with him, i would go for it. but i would take it slow. try to get him alone and ask him how he feels. dont demand an answer because guys hate that. be very understanding. he probably said no in the truth or dare because either you said no, or he didnt want everybody to know. it sounds like you really like him by the way you write about him, and how you said its all you ever think about. i bet he likes you too. you said he is always flirting with you, so that is a good sign. i think the reason why he dressed up in black clothes is because he wanted to get your attention, and also since you are kind of the gothic girl, he wanted to impress you. that is really nice that you trust each other, so he would make a really good bf.
for the kissing. like i said, take it slow. make sure the first time you think you might kiss him, you are alone. dont start making out or frenching on your first time. to show that you want to kiss him is looking at his lips while he is talking. dont start staring at them, but do look down at them once and awhile. then you can start leaning in towards him. most people turn their heads to the right, so watch what he is doing. if you do bang noses or teeth, just laugh it off. make sure to be gental, and dont keep your mouth open. that just invites a french kiss. trust me, it will come to you naturally.
also, this may seem a little weird, but try practicing on your hand. it really works!!!
hope that helped & good luck!!! :-D
if you have any more questions, or you need some more advice, just ask!!!
~stephi
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