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leading on boys..which boy to choose etc.
im 15 years young and have horrible luck with guys. ive always been a really complicated person when it comes to guys. i guess i have some what high standards blah blah. but theres this boy ive been hooked on since the beginning of school. we've never been "official" but basically together. we never did anything but we were still interested in eachother. alot of things have happened since the beginning of the year. mainly all my fault. i went to homecoming with another guy..only because he never asked me for whatever reason..then i hooked up with a guy that night..one of his close friends. that was bad. he got really mad but got over it and everything was basically back to normal. then on new years i got mad at him literally over nothing. basically found an excuse that would make me feel that i had a right to do something. so i hooked up with another guy even though we had been togther all night. he hated me after that. we were in a huge fight and he told me he wanted nothing to do with me etc. well i kept trying to apologize and get him back nothing worked. then on the day before v-day i went sledding with a bunch of people and he happened to be there. i ended up almost breaking my neck by almost landing on it which scared everyone but i was fine. on v-day i imd him to say happy v-day to see what would happen. he said you too and we talked normally. i asked him a couple days later what would happen with us..if we would ever be like friends again or w.e. he said he wanted to but he said he couldnt just be friends with me but he didnt want to be anything else but we'll see what happens. i thought that sounded good like there was still a chance. well not too long ago i got sick of waiting and waiting for him..even tohugh it hadnt been that long but im impatient. so i sort of started to like this other kid. well i thought i did bc he got mad at me and i cared alot and only thought of that so i figured id go with it. so i tried it and we madeout and he told me he liked me alot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes. so then i went on sb and he called me like everyday and we would talk. well i got back yesterday and went to the movies with a bunch of people. the old guy i liked was there and we sat next to eachother and flirted like the whole night and i got confused and i think i might like him again. well my friend told me later that someone had said something to him about us flirting and he got all defensive and then said theres no point in me being a dick to her anymore but i dont like her its whatever or something like that. then my friend said so i wouldnt like him again. but i cant help but think that i still do and that i still want him. but i dont know what to do about the other kid because he likes me alot but now i just dont want it anymore i feel bad but i cant help it. even though i dont know if anything will happen with me and my old guy but i miss him alot.and we're really good friends. but i just dont know what to do with either guys im horrible when it comes to this stuff. sorry for this incredibly long novel but no one understands or can helpp. i just need an honest outside opinion!
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You and that guy [ the first one ] went through a lot together and it seemed like everything was working fine. I'm glad you understand what you've done. He seemed to really care about you but you continued to push his buttons and do those things to him and when he had enough, you were hurt. It's really good that you guys are close friends now and it's better to have a friendship than no realtionship at all. This other guy that you have been talking to seems like a good guy. You & guy # 1 are over. He made it pretty clear that he wants to be friends and that he isn't so sure if he likes you more than that. I wouldn't push it if I were you. I understand that you really liked this guy and it's not going to be easy to just forget about him or ever get over him, but don't screw things up with this other guy. You should get to know him better to see if you really have feelings for him. If not, oh well and there's nothing that you can do about that and you shouldn't feel guilty. Don't make yourself chose right now. Take some time and just think about it. You don't need a boyfriend right now or anything but just be careful on what decisions you make. Boys will come and go and it's normal to be in a situation like this, but don't let it run your life. Stay friends with that first guy. You guys seem to get alont a LOT better as friends. Good luck with everything.
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