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whenever i like a guy i always flirt with him. but then if it gets to the point where he asks me out or my friend warns me that someone is going to ask me out it's like i loose all interest in them and then anything they do becomes annoying. like if i liked someone who acted out in class and i used to think it was funny and cute, after they ask me out then it just becomes annoying to me and i can't stand to be around the guys. I've gotten better about it, but whats wrong with me that's making me do this? anything else i can do to stop it?
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Finally! I thought i was alone. okay i do this all the time!There isnt much that you can do.... You are just looking for the right guy and unfortunatley its going to be that way until you find the right one. you need to find someone that gives you a little challenge. Someone that you have to fight for, and by doing this you will see how special a person is and WANT to be with them forever.
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yeah the same thing happens with me. like you like flirting with guys but you dont really want them to ask you out / get serious about it. you just like the feeling of flirting.
nothing is wrong with you, hun. nothing at all. it's just how you are - & you can change it.
- try not to flirt so much. like, try to refrain from being all touchy touchy & smiling & laughing all the time. that will prevent a lot of guys from even noticing you as a flirtatious target.
- friends with benefits? i mean if you keep losing interest in the guy, then what's the point of going out? just play it low-key. like don't flirt one day but flirt the next. that way it's not like, they like you more and more each day until one day they ask you out & it all crumbles down with one word... "no". so just tryyyy to refrain.
- hang around girls some. it's not like you can flirt with them ... well unless you are bi. but that's okay. i'm assuming you are not bisexual, but that way you can get some space from guys.
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