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Question Posted Wednesday April 4 2007, 3:57 pm

theres a guy i like.
ive liked him since kindergarden
we've been like best friends ever since
now hes 13/m and im 13/f
he transferred right before 7th grade
outside of school he said, "hi ____", then said hi to my friend. AFTER. (when i put that blank space, that stands for my name.) he IMed me one time... then signed off on AIM. then he signed back on a different screen name.
he has no problem what-so-ever with IMing every one of his friends... except for me!
so i IMed him once... we asked what kind of music and movies we both liked etc. until he had to go. but he never IMs... me... as ive said. so then i sent him an email with a hilarious link to youTUBe last night... but he hasnt replied yet. in my buddy profile i have all these phrases about love and maybe im coming on 2 strong.
i heard he liked a girl from his school from his dad.
but that was at the beginning of the year and there are 47 days left of school right now.
at the end of his away messages he always puts "<3 her" at the bottom. I KNOW THERE ARE TONS OF GUYS THAT DO THAT!
in 6th grade he used to steal my pens for fun... put his feet on my desk... and say my drawings looked like toilets. but i heard he liked a different girl that year. and im pretty sure he did.
(sorry this is so long.)
anyways... in 6th grade we were doing this thing kinda like profiles... and the teacher would say, "lover of" and we had to fill out the blank of who we loved. so then he got up in front of the class to show the teacher cause he didnt want everyone to see, and a guy guessed it was me that he liked. but then he told me it wasnt while blushing.
then i saw the paper and it said the girl's name i thought he liked in the fill-in-the-blank.
sorry if its confusing.
are we just friends??
im confused...
i know we're just friends right now but does he have any further intentions?


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Additional info, added Wednesday April 4 2007, 4:05 pm:
P.S.!!!
He also used to make fun of my dancing...
but sometimes when a girl and a guy are friends they're actually meant for each other without knowing it the whole time...
and idk... i'm just so confused!!!
hes friends with another girl that goes to his school he knew before. she was going out with this guy and the guy was treating her bad so he stood up for her. hes so sensitive that way.
anyway... he hasnt asked anyone out at his school yet from what i've heard.
but idk if he would stick up for me in a situation like that...
hes stood up for me before just in a different way... and for a different cause maybe i just don't know!!
a long time ago... like over the summer he IMed my bff asking for my screen name and email address.
he almost never IMs me... and doesnt email me. what's up with that????
also...
i've been thinking about transferring there because he goes there and i miss him so much. i told my mom i want to. but i didnt tell her the REAL reason!! is that wrong? i told her that the work is too hard (because it is) and that the whole school was turned against me. (which most of the people are.)
but i didnt tell her about him
is that wrong of me?
help!!

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sweetipie205 answered Friday April 6 2007, 6:44 pm:
(snore) Oh srry, that was a really long advice thing. Well I know that if he makes fun of you, he might like you. BUt you also have proof that he likes the other girl. But I think you should confront him and tell how you feel. If you cant tell him face to face then write him a note give ask someone to give it to him, this way you wont be embarrassed to give it to him yourself.

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Trina_boo answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 8:17 pm:
UM!! this is a hard one its seems as if he might just like you as a friend or maybe just feels you dont like him so he is playing it cool
but what you should do is write him a serious love note and explain your true feelings tell him that youve had the biggest crush on him since kindergarden and that your love for him is more than just to be friends and that you cant stand to be just friends and that you wanna be his girl

if he never replies than maybe its a sign that hes only interested in being the best FRIEND he can be

I hope I helped

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SoOverIt1 answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 4:36 pm:
Whoa..

To me id think bye now you to would be together.but is he the shy type of person? i pretty sure he use to like you. & maybe he still does. if he ask your friend for you email adress then thats a big step. but he soulds like thsi one boy i use to like who had a girl friend ever since i started to like him ya i know gayy! but anyways is very complicated but dont change shcools for a boy! because what happends if you change school & he has a girl friend.
but if he does dont worry about it cause you cant find someone else it may takm some time to get over him but you will.

& if you want to cahnge schools you should.
you might even find someone you like more then the boy you like now.

& you might even gettogether.
pluse it whould be better to go out with someone you like at the same school.

=] tell me how everything works out.

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