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do i want to hurt myself or something?
so my delema is that whenever i really fall hard for a guy he's a total jerk (like my current crush who cheated on his ex who he said he was in love with, is constantly ignoring me, then showering me with attention, and treats girls like they're nothing and can get away with it) and when i'm going out with a really nice guy... or just a guy that doesn't treat me like a total piece of shit i loose intrest and want to break up with them... and do. i already have a couple ideas to why i do this... but i'm not sure... and i just want to know so i can get over this fasination with really really shitty guys... anywho i think that i either
1.) still blame myself for alot of the really fucked up things that happend in my childhood and am subconcesly punishing myself
2.)have always had to look after imature guys that don't really respect women and now that's what i go for
3.)like a guy that will push me around cuz it reminds me of when i was little
4.)i'm just stupid...
please tell me what you think so i can try to get over this facination with horrible guys soon thank you...
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Hi,
well i think that you should try to get help. You should never let a guy treat you like shit! even if you claim you love him hes not worth it. My mom always tells me to never let anyone hurt you because like you you keep going bak to the bad guys. I think the reason why you cant keep a nice guy is because your soo used to havin totally different guys and your not used to bein treated nicely. You need someone that will comfort you and say good things bout you so your past doesnt come up again. TRy to forget bout the past becuz its the PAST and you should thnk about the future. Thats what is important right now the future and the present ok if you need anymoere help write me in my inbox k
xoxo
~Katelyn~
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You need to get over your past before you continue going out with boys. Period. Otherwise, you may get yourself into a situation where you have some jerk punching your face in daily. You should NEVER put up with abuse of ANY kind out of ANYONE.
Seek help.
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I think you need counseling, honestly. If something bad happened to you when you were little, they're having a bad effect on you now, and you need to get help for them.
When you date a nice guy, don't let him go. There's a lot of guys out there, but the nice guys are usually the best ones [obviously]. So keep them.
And it's normal to go for assholes when things have happened to you & those are the guys you've been exposed to. Just try & stay with a nice guy. You shouldn't lose interest. If he's nice, you should be loving it because you're not getting screamed at, or accused, or fucked over.
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