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I really like this girl but i have a problem
14/m okay so i really like a girl at my school. We have alot of classes together and we really hit it off this year. She is pretty much the most perfect girlfriend i could ever want. She's smart, beautiful, funny, and nice! But my problem is, that I have a good friend, lets call him "Mike" who is good friends with her as well and it seems like anytime i can get to be with her, he is there. He goes over to her house alot, which sorta makes me kinda jealous. I want to ask her out but I'm not exactly sure who she likes. I'd like to wait it out to see if i can do anything to get her to like me back, but the school year ends soon. She doesn't like "Mike" as anything more than a friend but its just so frustrating that she seems to notice him more than me. Like at the end of the day she'll always give him a hug but not always give me one. Sooooo what do you think i should do?
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awww. this is so sweet! =]
well, hun, you gotta forget about "mike". you cant worry about competition because competition=hesitation. talk to her more, and see if she does anything this weekend. and girls like it when you ask them straight up who they like. or, at least, i do anyway. it makes them seem...almost brave, you know? as for the hug thing, to hell with "mike" go give her one yourself! dont wait for her to come give you one, especially if she doesnt give you on everyday. girls love it when guys give them hugs instead of girls giving them hugs. =]
ask her out anyway. spontanious guys are the best type. doesnt matter if you know who she likes. and if your too shy, just ask around, and get to know her best friends.
i feel like i know you, do you go to my school?
anyway, good luck! =]
-amy.
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