welllll. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 18 months. & were both 15. we are completley serious and nothing could come between us until.. a few months ago. HIS MOTHER. she absolutley hates me and my family. Our parents used to be good aquaintances. they would talk every now and then whenever they saw eachother. and his mom and my mom would call eachother up every now and then. but then all of a sudden she felt as if she was "losing" her son(my boyfriend) to me. so my boyfriend & his parents would fight all the time, and he would run to my house at like midnight, my parents would call his parents and his parents would come over and get him. but this happened many times. the cops were called on my family many times, because my boyfriends parents told the cops we were hiding him, even though he was at my best friends house, butt the weird thing is my boyfriends parents dont hate my best friend and her family for taking him in but they hate me and my family even though we have listened to everyone of their commands, the commands were like not to let my boyfriend on my property, and that my parents werent aloweed to ever talk to him. my boyfriend doesnt have computer or phone so its not like i can ever get in touch with him and its been this way for months, i honestly feel as if though we have tried everything we even tried breaking up for a few days but its just too hard, we have been together for far too long to let something that shouldnt even be a problem.. effect our relationship big time. PLEASE HELP ME.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Friday April 6 2007, 11:45 am: Sorry that it took me a while to answer your question. 18 months is a very long time, and especilly for your age. The reason that I think his parents are over reacting that much is because they're worryed. They know that he's still very young and they don't want him to get into anything too serious. There has to be more to the reason that they are acting this way. You did nothing wrong and same goes for your parents. I honestly don't know what other advice to give you because I have never been in a situation like this. If you ever get the chance, talk to him mom about this. I wish you the best of luck for everything & I hope you and your boyfriend are together for a lot longer. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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