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kissing my best friend
thank you for the advise. now im just writng back in greater detail. ok well it wont be a problem if we hook up or at least i dont think so. my friend just likes him just a little so i dont think she would mind too much. and he definately wouldnt mind haha
ok well last week he kinda sorta acted like he was gonna kiss me. we were just running around being stupid and then he put his hands on my shoulders and got really close to my face. im not sure if he was just playing around or not but i pushed him back. haha i wish i hadn't but i didnt realze he was trying to kiss me until after. so anyways i like your idea about how to kiss him. and i really want to especially now that i think he likes me. this way i never have to actually tell him that i like him or ask him anything. i can just kiss him and wait for the reaction. =) i know just the place to do it too. because after skool he and i are alone.
oh and by the way this would be my first real kiss if he kisses me back so any tips would be great. thank you so much!
Jen
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hun i just read your response.... and as much as i hate going into personal experiences i feel that i o it to you to share.... a week and a couple of days ago (and i never make the first move.....ever! i usually get them asking) i decided to tell my friend (who i knew was gay) that i was intrested in him.... i figured there may just be a slight chance that he may be straight .... well again my hunch was right (and i let myself decieve it) he wasn't willing to risk anything even if he was straight. for one thing we are both separating... he leaves for grad school and i stay for a year to finish up..... aand for another he may be having mixed feelings since he'd been gay for a while but has been having thots about girls lately..... so anyway the moral of my boring experience... it hurts like crap! and no matter what you d you won't be able to change it... you cant choose you like or who likes you...so keep him as a frnd gay men usually get past that complicated awkward stage fast... and besides he seems like a sweet guy to have rethot asking you out so as to not hurt you..... PLUS now i am sure you feel free and like so much has been lifted from your back... and trust me it heals with time... summer is coming along soon and there is much fish in the sea to be baited... ;) andddd eyecandy! so enjoy and who knows you may find a cutey in no time....
yarmi
hey jen!
so sorry it took a while my laptop crashed and i lost all my passwords (i'm not too good in memorizing stuff!) so it took a while to bring them back..... i hope i'm not too late :)))
well here goes....... it looks like you guys are already some where since you goof around together alone and he is all physical.... one thing about guys (if they aren't gay) is that they never are THAT comfortable with girls if they didn't have higher motives... meaning, he's either a player or he really does like you.... from the sounds of it i think it's the latter..... but don't base everything you do on that assumption otherwise you won't be able to think straight and act (like pushing him away... btw about that... its soooo hard to keep calm in such a situation so what i do is think about somethng gross or serious like a test or dirty laundry or something... so that you don't move away or loose and oppertunity... remember C.C.C. CALM COOL COLLECTED! he more confident the more attractive)
anyway so about the kiss..... it's a bit tricky... if you master the calmness you can pull it of easily... remember think of a rite moment... my favorite scenario is when a guy and i sit together and do nothing for a minute... it's not awkward silence or anything it's just nothingness... make sure he's close to you at that point and slowly drop in for a lingering peck... smile at him for a few secs (his is where he should give you the kiss back if he wants to... the seconds are for him to gather up the courage) and then move.... don't say a word... if its neccessary just laugh (not giggle) a bit and then get up and suggest you go somewher like a pizza place and talk to him the whole way like you usually do.... but WAIT WAIT WAIT he will be saying something you'll feel it if he won't..... if he says what was that for you say can i kiss you now?! casually and jokingly... and then change topics...
ok so back to when you give him the peck and you're looking at him.....iif things get abit sweeter from there and he goes for another kiss then voila you've got your self honey pooh bear!
as for the kissing part..... usually wen you first kiss a guy for the first time its sweet and soft nothing forcefull or slopy... make sure you have yummy lipgloss on and tasty gum to make sure your breath is fine.... when your lips touch you'll know what to do really there is nothing much to it.... you'll be fine i am sure! you sound playful enough :)))))
goodluck!!!
and most importantly have fun!
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