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Conflict= sister, lover, ruining relationships
My name is Nikki, I'm 17 and female. Okay. I really need help. I like this boy. We'll call him D. My sister well call her T. Also likes him. She doesnt know I like him. She also don't know that I have had sex with him. My first problem is, I really like this guy, and we are just friends. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't want it to ruin anything. Any advice?
My second problem. My sister. I don't want her finding out I like him, let alone I've had sex with him, but hearing her talk about him makes me want to hurt her. What do I do? The next problem is, what if I tell him i like him and he dont like me. I'm up shit creek someone help..please?
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My suggestion is that you be honest with both parties. How will you know if he likes you back if you don't say something, for starters. Keep in mind that you shouldn't be too hurt if he doesn't like you back- I mean, really. If he doesn't like you yet has sex with you, he isn't a guy worth your time or effort. Period.
Yah, your sister may not like it, but you can't hide it from her forever. She is your sister- you should feel that you can be honest with her no matter what you are being honest about. Yah, she will probably be hurt about it, but she will get over it. She is your sister, and she will be there when everyone else has moved on with their lives, including this guy.
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