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Similar case with yours
I read your reply in one of the questions and your reply is something similar to my situation I am having here. My best friend who is a guy started to care for me even more, flirts with me like saying "let's get together", gets the things that I want like a "doggie(doll) for my bday present" and etc after knowing that I actually love him. And lately he is being over protective over me. This happened last 2 weeks where one of his friends asked me whether I want to join them for a trip for 3 days 2 night and my best friend was there with me at that time. When my best friend heard that question, before I could answer anything.. he said "she can't go, she have to stay back here to study for her exam (my exam is like 2 months plus away). Why is he acting like he's my boyfriend or something cause I know a best friend will not do that right? The thing is r u sure he is not giving "sign" that he actually starting to love me? Is just that earlier when he knew I love him, he was just too confused about his feelings whether "should he risk the friendship between us if he goes over the boundary" and rejected my feelings towards him. Is your best friend like that too treating the same way as my best friend? And is there no possibility that we will not go beyond just best friends?
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well your situation is slightly different than mine. in your case he actually doesnt want to risk the friendship. in my case he just doesnt want a commitment at all. and he does not like me at all. if he is being all protective than maybe he likes you. however maybe he just loves you so much as a sister. because then he would also be protective. its hard to know for sure but i think that you should talk to him about it. and if he rejects you again then you should move on. not talking to him could make you even more anxious to know how he feels. talk to him and see what happens. best of luck to ya. hope it works out =)and if it doesnt you have me if you ever need someone to talk to.
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