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Question Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 11:48 am

So I've liked this guy for a little while, and I park where he parks at school. If I can help it, I'll time it right so that he parks behind me or in front of me. He and his friends have this myspace for a joke band they have. And, I looked and he wrote a really bad song about me saying that i stalk him. I'm freaking out and I don't know what to do! help pleaseee

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DearAbby92 answered Friday August 21 2009, 6:24 pm:
Wow, I am so sorry I did not see your question when you asked it, two years ago! I guess I have been on and off on this website.
I'll still answer it though, and maybe if you still hang around the site you can tell me how it turned out and if my advice would have been good?

I would have said to make yourself seem untouchable. Thats when guys want you the most, sometimes. Try not to get there at the same time, and if you do, don't even look at him. Pretend to have a conversation on your phone with a friend talking about a hot date you had or with that fake guy saying how you can't wait to see him.
After a few days park a little further away, just so where he can see you but you won't be close enough for it to be considered "stalking".

I wouldn't have confronted him about the song because that means you saw their myspace, making him think you "cyber stalk" him.

Basically I would have told you to look confident, show no interest in him, and make it seem like you are doing fantastically without him. No one can make him like you except for himself, but at least he couldn't accuse you of stalking him.

I hope you got the situation cleared up then!

-Abby

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