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Friend and Boy
Well lets just say I have had a HUGE crush on this shy kid for like a year. My best friend always talked to him for me and constantly tried to set something up between us, without coming out and directly telling him the I liked him. Well recently, he came out and said that he like my best friend (only 1 of the 3 girls he has admitted to liking all 3 years of high school.) and asked her out. Now when my friend told me I was obviously hurt, but not as hurt as when I found out she was actually considering it. Mind you, this is MY BEST FRIEND EVER, and everyone in the school knows this. Well she talked to to me about it, and obviously being a good friend, I insisted she try him out. I didn't think she was actually going to do it, but now she is. I honestly don't know how to feel about the situation. Do I have a right to be upset? Should I be upset? I was like in love with this kid, and it just going to be so akward now that this happened. I just don't know what to do or feel.
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Of course you have the right to be upset. Basically you see this as a betrayal and most people would. The trick is not to let it get to you and you absolutely cannot show it. Use this opportunity to date other guys and let your friend have her fun. They will have to break up eventually and when they do you will be waiting. That is if you still want him. Again you cannot show that this is you're plan or the guy will think you are in love with him and he won't be as interested. Also don't let a guy ruin you and your friends friendship. No relationship is ever worth that.
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