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a ring
i overheard that a guy i like just as friends is getting me a ring for my birthday. it is a cross ring and i don't know if it is supposed to be something more than a birthday present. i don't know if i could accept it if that's the case...what should i do?
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By all means accept it! You would look pretty darn bad if you didn't. He knows that you are just friends so there's no worries. People often by rings because they symbolize something such as friendship, graduation, being part of a group together etc. All it symbolizes is friendship as there's no romance.
Him giving you a ring doesn't mean that romance is what he wants either. It's a birthday present and a pretty thoughtful and expensive one no doubt. Somebody must think you're a real friend. Accept it, be thankful and feel valued by your friend. Most people would not be this kind with gifts for anyone's birthday.
Maybe you have directly or indirectly impacted his life in a positive way and the ring is to represent that. It certainly represents your friendship, birthday but something deeper and it's not about romance or you'd see heavy signs of his intentions long before now if it was.
So, relax he's not after you/anything and enjoy the ring he gives you. It just means he cares a lot about your role in his life as a friend and wants you to know it each day.
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Well you should accpet it because it's a gift and it must mean he thinks of you the same way you think of him..If he's getting you a ring then it's probably a friendship ring..which is really sweet... don't assume anything you're not sure what the gift is soppose to mean until you recive it so dont worry about it...hope i helped
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