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Lacking it
Well my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time exactly 2 weeks ago. We had a bit of a pregnancy scare because my period was 3 days late, and now he is saying he will not have sex with me anymore (or any other girl) until he is ready to actually has kids. He says that foreplay is good enough for him. I personally hate foreplay and I need to convince him that it isn't going to happen again and I will take more control of the situation next time (by talking to a doctor and getting the morning after pill). What I want to know is, what are some things I can do to make sex irresistable for him.
Thanks soo much!
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I hate to say this, but i think that you need to respect your boyfriend....because i do. He is really brave, and is making a very responsible choice. I think it is wrong of you to try and make it so that he cant say no.
If he isnt ready to have sex, and doesnt want to until he is ready for kids, eaither you need to respect that (and accept it), or find a new boyfriend.
Sorry to be so rude. And Good Luck.
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Your boyfriend has the right idea. I know you want to have sex with him but it isn't the smart thing to do. If you talk him into it and have another "scare" he will end up hating you, and you don't want that.
He is trying to be a responsible partner, something you should be grateful for. If you hate foreplay, then he isn't doing something right. Tell him what you like. Communicate.
The morning after pill is not something you should rely on as a form of birth control. It is made for emergency's and a lot of doctors just won't give it to you for that. Those who do have strict guidelines and will not give it out often.
You need to be on the birth control pill if you want to be protected in the best way possible. You will have to go to the doctor, have a pelvic exam and get a prescription. :)
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