I don't know much about Theology, or where we go after we die, but I do believe in evolution of soul and spirit. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. I know that people die every day, but somehow I can't accept the fact that a life could die. Dying life just seems to be an impossible idea for me. Some people try to communicate with the dead using Ouija boards, and maybe they can connect to the certain energies of a person, but I, personally, think that it is not the soul they talk to.
Wherever people go after they die, must be greater that what we think of Heaven, greater than what we imagine. I don't believe in hell, but I do believe that our suffering about the ones, who passed away, could make it harder for them to obtain peace, and if you wish to have a comforting thought, that your son is happy, wherever he is right now, I think you should let yourself experience some peace too. You deserve it, and if you wish, you can pray for your son, let him know that you're okay, and send your love to him.
Let yourself feel comfort from knowing that your peace and happiness will also add to the peace and happiness of those who loved you, but are gone for the moment.
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