hi, my fiends little brother is starting in our school next year, and the whole family is sort, of, um, i dont know what, but sort of wierd. my friend gets bullied because of his huge ass, and we dont want his little brother to get bullied like this. so in the summer, we're going to teach him the do's, and dont's of this school. any tips?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? runawayxlove answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 3:33 pm: hey, well actually i dont have a lot of tips for you because i dont go to your school and i dont know what its like there and such, but i have a few. i know your teaching him what to do to not get bullied, but no matter who you are, how good looking you are, etc. your going to get bullied at least once. heres what to do if your getting bullied: 1) dont look like your affected by it. no matter how much it hurts or what hurtful and sore things that they say, dont phase them by acting like it bothers you. the only reason why people bully you is to see your reaction to it and see you feel hurt. if he doesnt cater to there bullying, they wont do it anymore because its not fun to do. 2) be the bigger person. if things do get escalated and acting like it bothers you doesnt work, DO NOT THROW THE FIRST PUNCH! now im not encouraging throwing the second punch, but its self defense and you need to clearify that hitting you is not okay. after you use self defense, walk away. dont throw any more punches. go find a teacher before it gets worse. im sure they will understand self defense. good luck :]. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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