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Wicked confused!
Ok so this might be just a lil bit confusing and long/ sorry...Lets name my friends Jessica, Lucy, & Jeremy. Ok well, we've all been freinds for a couple of months now. But i've known Lucy for about 8 years. But Jeremy started fighting with Jessica and calling her slut & stuff like that. & then Lucy & Jessica started fighting about something & i kinda stopped talking to Jessica. But then Lucy & Jessica made up & so did Jeremy & Jessica. But then Jeremy got mad at Lucy & me for something but started talking to me again. && then i got into a fight with Jessica but am now kinda talking to her. & now Jereny started talking to Lucy again. So yea if you didnt catch up with all of that, basically we're all talking again. But how can I try to avoid all this drama without stopping being friends with any of them???
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Hmm, the best answer to this that I can think of (and is what I generally do when this kind of thing happens in my circle of friends) is to not get involved. :] I usually make it clear to all the ones involved (especially when they come to me independantly saying he/she did this and that) that this is their disagreement to sort out and fix and I will not be taking sides because they you (they) are all my friends. This usually works really well but there is usually the odd one or two who say you either take their side or they won't talk to you either. :| I find this a very childish thing and generallyjust tell them fine, up to them, I'll be here when they decide they want to start talking again. Hope that helps a little. :]
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