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well me nd my gf hav ben goin out for 4 days at around 5 today, but her x is my best friend nd he seems realli quiet when im with my gf which is not like him, but i dont know how to act around her with him around coz hes all over her,
they were only goin out for 4 days but,
a while ago way after they broke up nd b4 we were goin out 1 of mi mates told mi best mate that he asked mi on msn if i liked her nd i didnt answer
so when they got back to the park mi best mate had the sh*ts becoz of the question....
i dunno wat to do can u plz help?
13/m
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ok so if i were you i would just ask my friend if he's cool with you going out with her and find out if he still has feelings for her and if he says no then ask him why hes all over her... and why he's always quiet but be sure to not like attack him with questions cause then he might get kinda pissed. so yea just talk to your friend about it and if he says he kinda likes her which i doubt he would admit 2 her bf then just ask him if hes like mad that u 2 are goin out but maybe you should find out from other sources if he still does like the girl and maybe you will have to chose between the two which would really suck but yea hope i helped!
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Hmm, a tense situation indeed. The first mistake might have been going out with a best friends ex girlfriend as it can always cause problems.
You mentioned that when you are with her and your best friend is there he is always all over her. This would just be unacceptable behaviour from your best friend regardless how much he may think you are in the wrong for going out with his ex.
You will have to talk this out with your best friend and try and resolve the situation and find out what is going on in his head. If he doesn't mind you going out with her then tell him that you don't like him all over her - that's just behaviour that I find unacceptable.
As for your girlfriend, if she had her ex all over her (while she is supposed to be your girlfriend) why didn't she tell him to back off. I know how some can be afraid to say something but it's something every girl needs to be able to do especially with the amount of weirdos out there nowadays. On the other hand if she let it happen because she liked it then you may want to ask yourself is this really the kind of girl you want to be going out with (who goes out with you and likes having other guys all over her).
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