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Mean/untrustworthy
Often times I act like I don't trust my boyfriend; even when I don't realize it. I'll check his phone and his myspace because I know he flirts with other girls, I mean he's told me he does.
Well, sometimes I get really defensive and mean to him because I'll just assume he wants to be with some other girl. How do I chill out and just be sweet to him like I used to be?
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Honey I am so in the same sitation.. it hurts I know!
I have come to the conclusion that its because I love him so much and I never want to lose him!
How long have you two been together? If its been a while then why would he want to throw that away?
Trust is a major thing in a relationship and you can't really have a relationship without trust.
Perhaps talk to him and make him understand why you get all defensive and mean to him, if he's flirting with other girls it shouldn't be happening.
He is in a relationship with you and only you, flirting with others just isn't on, you need to make him understand that you love him but him flirting with other girls hurts you amd thats why you get defensive!
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Being like that is natural. You can help being protective and wanting to be sure that its only you he loves. Just make sure to catch yourself before checking his phone or 'snooping' on him. If he's honest with you then you should trust him.
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