Well im really scared because i was drunk on this night and this lad i really liked i kept going over too him and sayin i love him and i only wanted to meet him but i didnt know what i was doing and he took me in a bush and fingered me but i dont know if he did anything else and i havent started my period but blood came out a week later and i was on for a week but ive not come on for four months how do i know if i started or something is wrong with me?
If he denys having sex or anything else other than fingering you, and your period is this late, i would take a pregnancy test! And well.. even if you dont talk to him, or if you do and he says he had sex with you, take a pregnancy test!
And then if you are still worried after that, go to a doctor.
And with the blood, that could be blood from getting your cherry poped, or he could have knocked out some extra blood that was left from your last period.
Razhie answered Friday July 18 2008, 7:39 pm: If you haven't had your period in four months it would be a good idea to see a doctor. That is a bit long for any woman to go, even a young one who might be irregular normally.
If you think you might be pregnant, take a home pregnancy test.
You may also ask the guy you were with what happened. He might be able to calm some of your fears.
It’s not unusual to see a bit of a blood after your first sexual activity. It is called spotting. It could have happened because of damage to your hymen, or simply because being fingered dislodged some menstrual blood.
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