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why is this getting on me?
i am 19 male
i seriously, am troubled by a thing. i have this friend (Girl). she has a bf and she has got serious problems at home(as she says but i really dont think so).i have been helping her in whatever way she wanted, specially when she needed me eg. when she was having problems with bf, when her mother was ill, etc. But now when she has everything going in the right direction in her life, i really feel she doesnt care about me, she used to call me to know where i am when i didnt reach in time this i find missing. there are many simmilar cases i can possibly think of one at this time, i dont know why i always try worry about our relation. i dont why this is getting on me? i tried to just not think these kind of things, but i am unable to. now i seriously feel she is only using me when she requires me and she will do the same next year when her bf is out of college. i have tried asking her if she is intentionally ignoring, she said she doesnt do it deliberatly its her natural self. i have tried behaving as she behaves with me but she is too busy with bf to think about this. this is getting on me? i dont know what to do?
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I have experienced a simillair thing.
One of my, well former good friends (now we just tolerate each other) always had problems, always had an issue. And she would take it out on whoever was there to listen. So she'd have a new good friend every so often. She'd let her problems out on them, they'd listen. And they got nothing out of it, and were just dropped as friends soon after. Now they all bascially, hate her.
Dont let this happen to you. Really talk to your friend, and tell her that you want a friend all the time, not a friend when she has a problem and needs help. Friendship is about being there 24/7 for the other person, wehter is when they need to talk or are in trouble, or when they just need a laugh. Im sure she'll understand. And if not, is the pain on you really worth it? You must decide.
Good luck,
-Abby
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