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Boyfriend Porn
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and ever since we have started dating, I have found a bunch of different porn. On his computer, everyday there was something new...even a swinger website. Now his computer is at work so he doesn’t look go on porn on the internet anymore, but just the other day I found brand new porn magazines!
Our sex is unbelievably amazing, I have had sex with a few people and ours is by far the best...and note that we have sex at least 5 times a week. We also try many different thing/positions
Do you think that he is unsatisfied or wants something else... why does he need to look at other women besides me all the time!
I wouldn’t care if it was every once in awhile but all the time is a little much don’t you think?
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I can see why you would feel upset. Have you asked him why he looks at porn so much?
It's quite normal for men (and women!) to look at porn, or any material they find arousing. This doesn't mean they are not satisfied with their partner or their sex life. It can just be a fun fantasy type thing.
Your options include trying to get involved with the porn. Look at it together, roleplay based on it, etc.
They also include letting your boyfriend know how deeply uncomfortable the porn makes you. If he knows you are feeling insecure or upset, he may be happy to cut down (or cut OUT) the porn.
If he is looking at much more porn than you would consider normal, though I'd be careful to say what 'normal' was, he may have an addictive need to do so. If this is the case, there are professionals who specialize in this area.
Basically, though, it sounds as if you've got a fabulous sex life. It's up to you to decide how you proceed from here, and what you are willing to put up with. Having a conversation with him should be pretty high up on your priority list, though. Only he can explain why he looks at so much porn.
I wish you both the best.
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