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im not sure what to say to him?...
o.k so i like this guy a lot. we went out for like 3 days i know haha... but we decided to just get to know eachother because we started going out before we really knew eachother. well when he said that he wanted to be friends and get to know me more i thought that he just wanted to break up and i went out with this other kid. later i found out that he didnt want to really break up... it was true and wanted to get to know me and then go back out. well i am not going out with that kid any more. this all happenned right after christmas. I really like the guy now. We talk online a lot and we went out to lunch, but i am not sure if he likes me more than a friend. i really really like him and i want to ask him out,or find out if he likes me. please do not tell me to just flat out say it. i dont want to be like i like you, will you go out with me? do you have any suggestions besides flurting to let him know that i like him with out him having to question it. i think he likes me... i just need him to know that i like him.
thanks
14/f
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you don't want to say, 'I like you, will you go out with me?' how about saying, 'I like you.'
This lets him know in a clear, direct way how you are feeling. If you don't want him to be questioning your feelings, this is the only way that will guarantee him knowing exactly what you are thinking.
For all you know, he's having the same thoughts and feelings as you. Once you are both clear about where each other stands, you'll be able to decide whether you want to go out again or not.
I wish you the best.
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