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OMG. SO SICK OF THIS.
My friend's boyfriend is basically an allout loser. He treats her wicked badly, and makes her cry almost every night. It's to the point where she has cut herself because of him. She constantly asks if he still loves her or not, and he says she's wicked annoying. Which I understand, but he doesnt need to upset her like this. She says she relizes he treats her this way, yet she does nothing about it. How can I make her stop all this. I honeslty cant take it, its to the point where even i get upset about it. What do I do?!
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something like this sounds like it is going to take some tough love for her, take it from someone who used to cut, many people don't understand why people do it, but i know that i've never done it over a boy, if she loved herself enough then she'd know when she's with someone who isn't good for her, she should understand that most people don't change so odds are he's going to stay like this for a long time, she needs to just break up with him and find someone who'll treat her the way she deserves to be treated
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Hmm this kinda sounds very familiar to me. The best advice I can give you is to be there for your friend and help her. Tell her that you worry about her cutting and try to get her to stop. And if her boyfriend treats her wrong, then she can do much better. Let her know that. But talk to her about all this and how its effecting you too. Hopefully she'll understand. I hope I helped.
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Well, it's good that you care about her, you should continue talking to her, but ABOVE ALL pray for her, it's in God's hands, is she christian? If she is remind her that she is a beautiful creation of God and that she doesn't deserve a guy like him. Then(after you've calmed down) you can pray for him too. You also need to check up on her on the whole cutting thing, i know how that goes, just make sure she stops.
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