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Question Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 7:26 pm

my best friend is a "prep" but all my other friends are emo and goth looking (they really aren't, they are weird and awesome), my other friend, we will call her "erika". She doesn't like "ida" so she says that she won't be my friend if i start acting like them, i want to sit with them at lunch and be better friends with them....but i just don't know what to do....and i m afraid that she will stop being my friend...and the whole guy factor, i m afraid that i wont find the guy for me, or a good looking one (and fyi, i m a prep and a emo, well a little bit of both of my friends.....please!!!!

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TEENAGExHEARTS answered Friday March 16 2007, 6:24 am:
i've gone through the same exact situation. to me it seems like erika isn't a very good friend. if she is your real friend then she wouldn't care who else you hang out with unless they were getting you into some kind of trouble.

what i think you should do is reassure erike that you are are still best friends but that you still want to be friends with ida and her friends too. slowly start talking to Ida and her friends more to see what they are like.

and don't let anybody pressure you into what you should wear or how you should look. dress how YOU want to, not how erika wants you to. for me i am still kinda "girly" yet i love my checkered vans, converse, anything checkered or plaid, rock music, and skinny jeans. i'm like a mix of everything! and i found that delias is a very girly way to still be kinda edgy =]

good luck with everything and if you have any more questions just leave one in my inbox =]

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