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does he really like me?¿


Question Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 10:54 pm

okay well today at school i was crying because in 4th period a boy made a comment about my mom and was talking shit about her an he knows shes dead!well when the teacher was talking to us in front of the class i dont no why but i just started to cry and this one boy mike who i went out with like two years ago for only a week well since then i have only datted one guy for a while,while he has dated about two or three girls.Well i still have feelings for him.Well right now he is currently taken by a girl and im not well when i was crying in 4th period and the bell rang i just didnt get up and everyone left and mike said come on sarah its okay so i also have 5th period with him well when i was sitting in my desk i just had tears like running down my face and he was like lip talking to me(where they talk with there lips and not with there voice)and he said plz stop cryng and i said why and he said because i hate seeing you like that.well then he asked me if i like him(but he always asks girls that)i said yes and i said only a little bit he said you no you like me a lot and i said yea i do like you alot.~but hes never really nice to me when he has a girlfriend hes always mean but he was nice to me today!

so what do you think........
i need your opinion


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sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 10:18 am:
Well he genuinely cares about you that's for sure. He may like you too, but honestly, that means nothing. Lots of people like other people, but that doesn't mean anything will happen between them. Plus, what you described could just be the doings of a nice guy and nothing more. You were crying. It's not like you were sitting there happy as can be and he came up to you. Since he cares about you, at least as a friend, he was brave enough to approach you and make sure that you were okay. He didn't want you to just sit there and feel bad with nobody trying to comfort you. Don't look too deeply into this. It doesn't really mean anything other than that he's really sweet. He has a girlfriend and since he seems like such a nice guy, he probably isn't going to want to end things with her. Don't get your hopes up about him. You two tried it once and it didn't work. The chances of it happening again, not to mention working again, are small. I think you have a good friend in him though. He's probably just mean to you when he's around his girlfriend because she's the jealous type and she wouldn't be able to handle it if he was his normal sweet self to you. See if you can get a friendship out of him. He'd be an amazing friend. :)

The guy that was making all those unnecessary comments should not go unpunished. He was way out of line. I think that you should talk to someone at your school like the principal or guidance counselor and see if someone would talk to him about what he did. He wouldn't necessarily be in trouble, but he'd at least get a little sensitivity training and hopefully never do what he did to you again. My guess is that he was just trying to be funny or cool and didn't mean to hurt you as badly as he did. Even so he's definitely not worth your time. Try not to let him bother you.

Good luck. <3

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Teza answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 1:22 am:
That boy that made that comment about your mom is very immature and selfish. No one deserves to feel like crap. I don't really know what to tell you about Mike. He seems like he still cares for you as a person and doesn't want to see you hurt and upset. He wants to be there for you but if he's mean to you when he has a girlfriend, you really have to let him know how you feel about that. It's not right if he treats you that way and he needs to understand that it's wrong. Just talk to him more and hang out as friends and you never know what will happen.

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