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My mom
I'm 15/f. I love my mom I really do, but all she does is complain about how unperfect we are. Me and my sister are adopted and it seems like she regrets it everyday. It's always "I've never seen children so iressponsible/filthy/stupid." Me and my sister try we really do. Here's the question: What am I supposed to do if she's never happy with me?
thanks,
tired
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Well, you might consider thinking about what your mom is going threw on a daily basis... like is she stressed at work, has someone died that was close to her something that might put her in a form of depression? But that still does not give her the right to do that! I think you need to talk to someone that you are close to but to help your sister say stuff to her like oh I like that out fit or good job if she does something good and it will help her out in this and also she might do it back to you. But I am glad you still really love your mom that is so sweet! Or maybe you should even talk to her and tell her how you feel and tell her about how you still really really love her but the way she has been treating you is really hurting you. Hope this helped and if you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to write me!
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Well obviously you really love your mom and wouldn't want anything blamed on her, so, one thing I could suggest would be to try maybe for one week making her days easier. I mean no offense but maybe youre not noticing how much stress is going on in her life. If that does not work, then talk to her or another parent. Ask "Mom, do you ever think that we don't help enough around the house?" or something so that she knows you care. If she still says that you don't help out enough, just tell her in a nice way that you feel your trying to help alot, but your mom isn't appreciating you for it.
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Wow, that really is not nice. How long has she adopted you? If it's for a short time you really should tell someone because that is not right. People to tell can be teachers, or an adult that cares about you. You could even ring up the adoption service too. If she's adopted you for a long time she could be going through a rough time so maybe help her through it or offer to talk. Or give her space. But don't let her walk all over her.
But if she continues to do this it's not right. Like I said before: Tell someone. That can be considered as child abuse.
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