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she changed. alot.


Question Posted Monday March 12 2007, 3:17 pm

i kno this is long but please take the time to read it and help me. my best friend in the entire world has completely changed. i spent the whole summer with her and we were inseperable. but when i went back home, because she lives in another state, i met some new people. i met this girl and guy and the three of us became really good friends. she started talking to them and me and her talked less. we started getting in huge fights and now we are in the biggest fight ever because shes changed a lot. it used to be that no matter what we could call each other and cheer each other up. but i called her to cheer me up and she ignored me and then lied to me about calling the person i was upset about. now we are in a huge fight. what should i do?

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DustMaster answered Monday March 12 2007, 5:41 pm:
If I were you I would take this time to find new friends. I'm not saying that the relationship is over, but in case you and her begin to upset each other too much, then you have some new friends to back you up.

Be careful in choosing friends. It's ok to be picky.
If you're picky about your friends, then this situation will be a lot less likely to happen.

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CHiCKENxNOODLExSOUP answered Monday March 12 2007, 5:18 pm:
just move on.
everyone changes.
and everything happens for a reason.
so maybe you arent meant to be friends?
it might hurt at first.
but its the truth.
and you'll get used to it.
most likely, she prob. thinks you've changed too.
and you have.
because EVERYONE does.

:]

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imxkathleenx3 answered Monday March 12 2007, 4:17 pm:
Hey. Well, there's really not much you can do about who she has become. You could try to tell her that who she has turned into is someone you really don't like and you have no desire to be friends with the "new her." If she's any kind of a friend, she'll atleast pay attention to what you're trying to say. Make sure you ask her if she thinks that you're the one that has changed, or if you're doing something she doesn't approve of. If you want to keep a friendship, you need to say what you feel, whether it's the nicest think someone could say to you, or not. Hope I helped and good luck! ♥ Kathleen.

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