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My first
Ok this question is going to be kind of deep, so here goes. When I was 14 I lose my virginity to my first love. I'm 19 now and married to another man. My first love, Tim, and I have been on and off since I was 14. No matter what we always seem to find a way back to each other. The problem is, I have been married now almost 2 years to this other man. BUT I still find myself thinking (alot) about my first, Tim. I don't know if I am in love with him still, or what. I am so confused. Everytime we bump into one another it's like that spark never left. Please help asap.
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"i think that its always natural to think about your first love, because in a sense, it really does never leave. a first love will live on within you forever. whatever is meant to happen, will happen. we make our own destiny in this world, but fate is something we cant control.
if fate were bringing her to this man, it would end her current relationship for a VERY good reason.
and until her marriage to this other guy is over
theyre not meant to be
but time heals, so it will heal and harden from her first love, or it will eventually bring them together
you cant rush love, but you cant push those that love you away, either
its a tough situation but, i think you should go on with your marriage. and its okay and natural to think about a first love from time to time and wish them well and wonder what theyre up to, but dont act on it, never act on it, and never speak of it. it's in the past."
Mackenzie-another coloumnist here.
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it sounds to me like you still love him, and obviously there is something there between the two of you or you wouldn't feel this way. if you really think about him a lot too then i think maybe you and tim are meant to be together but the guy you married is keeping you apart. i believe there is always going to be something between you and your first love, that's natural but i think that you and your first love are truly meant to be together and fates trying to bring you together again. just wait it out and follow your heart. :) hope i could help!
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