So I met this girl last year, and I really like her...But all she wants to be is friends..I wish that she would go out with me, but she is blinded by all the cool guys out there..How can I attract her attention to me instead of the cool guys...?
Alpha345 answered Sunday March 11 2007, 10:09 pm: You be here friend, that's how.
Because sooner or later, she is gonna get screwed over by those "cool" guys and she is gonna be a bit messed up. Who does she run to? Her friends and especially if they are close friends of the opposite sex variety.
So there it is, be her friend, be close to her, and be ready for the eventual heartache when she gets heartbroken.
lilmissblondiex3 answered Sunday March 11 2007, 9:47 pm: hey
youre gonna hate me for saying this. but just be yourself. it honestly is the best way. there is no secret formula or anything to make a girl like you. however if shes a smart girl (and you like her so she probly is) she can probly tell that most, not all, but most "cool" guys are really superficial. as in they only act how other people want them to act, not how they really are. and that is one of the most unattractive things in a guy, however some girls don't notice if a guy is being real or not. but honestly just be yourself. and you can
-give her compliments (we love it when you give us compliments. it makes us feel special. and shows that your sweet. which is oh so hot)
-be kinda mysterious about it (act like you like her. but dont make it really obvious, this drives us girls INSANE, and makes us crazyyy...thats good)
-dont EVER talk bad about her
-be there for her (let her talk about other guys that she likes. for a while, it might not be you, but after a while she wil realize what a great guy you are and how youve helped her through everything with all of the other guys. and shell realize that she really should just be with you)
-be patient. girls take time to realize how wonderful some guys are. so just give her time. shell realize how great you are
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