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ya.
well theres a guy. i feel comfortable talking to him online (like myspace,email,IM, etc...) but in person it's like i freeze up or something and i can't think of anything to talk about. what are some good ways to get over this?
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If it's seeing him in person and potentially liking him that's freaking you out, pretend he's just another of your girlfriends, and act as you normally would. It sounds weird but it works for me!
Things to get the conversation going:
1. what are you doing in your present situation? If you just make a comment about something currently happening around you, he can reply because he's there too, and voila! Conversation!
2. if there's a break coming up, you can ask what they're doing, then say what you are doing/ where you are going (if any one of you happens to be going anywhere)
3. Or if you have just gotten back, "how was your break?"
4. anything bizarre/ironic/funny that had recently happened to you (make mental notes beforehand while walking around)
5. any bizarre/random people
6.how you feel in your situation ("I'm so glad it's friday!!", "gahhh so much homework and I'm so tired." ect ect)
And before you talk to him, you could always think of one interesting thing to say (I prefer the bizarre things that happened to you/ bizarre people for this one), to either open a conversation, or to say when there's a lull.
If you're already talking to him online, this shouldn't be too hard to get over =]
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try talking to him about things you both enjoy, something you could both do together. you will be having so much fun if it's something you like you won't be worried about how nervous or uncomfortable you are. eventually you will start feeling more of the ability to be yourself around him and things will be better between the two of you. if you cant be yourself around him it makes it harder for him to be himself. hope i could help. :)
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well
just when you see him
just think
of something
like a tv show
and say omg did you watch ... lastnight
it was the best episode
or something like that
i feel the same sometimes
hahah
but yeahhhhh
bring up something
hope i helped
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i was like that it is because you dont no what to talk about and maybe you like this person go over to him and ask him what he did at the weekend and talk about his hobbies
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