my boyfriend broke up with me last night.. he said he still likes me but he needs time to get his head clear because he's still in love with his ex girlfriend. (from october) he keeps thinking abuot her but he told me that he never thoguht abuot her when he was with me... i told him i was in love with him and he told me i was killing him. i asked him if i should wait for him to get his head clear. and he said he's not going to tell me NOT to wait because he still likes me. but i don't want to have waiting for nothing. and wasted my time. but i love him. and so my question is should i wait for him to get better. because this happed over six months ago so how can he try to recover now? you know? i lost my virinity to him. i didn't want it to have been for nothing. please help thanks a lot
sugarplum07 answered Friday March 9 2007, 2:54 pm: If he loves another girl, then it's better that he is just left alone. I'm so sorry. You gave him your virginity and everything only for him to leave you. I say you should just move on. If this has happened before, it's happening now, then it will happen again. There are better guys out there. You and your ex should simply be friends. If he really liked you, he would want to be with you and that's obviously not the case. Spend more time with your friends and do things you love to keep your mind off him and to help you meet new people. [ sugarplum07's advice column | Ask sugarplum07 A Question ]
luvbug555 answered Friday March 9 2007, 1:28 pm: babe i know it hurts. but i think if you wait for him, its going to be for a waist. even if you do get back with him, its not going to last, and your heartbreak is going to be even worse. be happy that it ended before you got way morre attatched to him. i would try to forget about him. it will take a while, but yo will move on. take care of yourself! xo,
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