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What do i do!
Ok my boyfriend wants to eat me out right?
And i want to its jus im scared.... I mean wat if he doesnt like it or sumum.....
Wat if i dont taste good???
And also im still and virgin and he has asked me many times to have sex and i want to im jus not really comfortable with my body. I mean wat if after he sees me naked he doesnt like me nemore?
And im scared if he eats me out that might lead to sex...... What are the chances of that>??<
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If you are washing yourself once daily with a non-scented soap (the lips, etc - NOT inside your actual vagina), changing your panties daily, etc your vagina will smell/taste fine. You can experiment with yourself by tasting yourself (via your finger). One thing you may notice is that you are likely to taste differently at different times in the month. This is normal.
If your boyfriend wants to do this, chances are he'll be more than okay with your taste/smell and your body. However, if you aren't comfortable you may not enjoy yourself.
In order to help get more comfy with your body, there are some things you can try. This include viewing yourself naked, using a mirror to look at your vagina, painting or drawing pictures of yourself, etc. You can also think about how valuable your body is, and all it allows you to do.
Your body, while pleasureable and wonderful, is not the be and end all. If a boy that you were in a relationship with suddenly turned around and dumped you after seeing your body - good riddance. Do you want a boyfriend who cares more about your flesh than your heart or mind?
If you definitely don't want to have sex, then you need to make that decision and stick with it. Share it with your boyfriend as well.
Oral sex does not automatically lead to sex, though it is a pretty big step on the way. However, I do believe that when people are clear about how far they are willing to go, they can stick with it. It's about your conviction and ability to be clear with another person about what you do or don't want.
It sounds as if you are just feeling uncomfortable with the whole issue of sexuality, while your boyfriend is ready for more. You may want to consider how you'll talk about this with him, as it's not smart to allow yourself to be pushed into any activity you aren't ready for. And it's okay to not be ready - everyone gets there in their own time.
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