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my best friend is a huge flirt
my best friend is a huge flirt. we joke around about it, and we think its funny sometimes. but now,recently, its bothering me cause any guy that i like or like me.. she starts to flirt with. she knows and i dont think she means to. she never emotionally hurt me or stole a guy from me, i'm just afrarid she will.
so what can i do maybe make her stop or keep a guys attention on me? help is appreciated
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tell her.
i doubt she means to; i am a huge flirt too and i know i have done the same thing (not on purpose)
to my best friend.
just tell her. she may not realize it; and when she does she will feel like shit..
let her know it bothers you; and if she's a good friend she'll stop
or at least work on it; it's not that easy to stop right away
you may need to remind her :]
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The most important aspect of friendship is honesty and trust. You need to be honest with your friend and tell her that her behavior is worrying you. It's not like you have to be mean about it, say, "I don't mean to accuse you of this or anything, it just seems like you flirt and awful lot with the guys I like and it kind of bothers me. Are you doing it on purpose?" Chances are, she doesn't realize she's doing it and she'll stop doing it from then on.
If you want to keep the guy's attention on you, why don't you try flirting a bit? Or at least be confident and fun to be around. Your outgoing personality will attract the guy you like to you. There's more to snagging a guy than just flirting. Flirting is easy. The girl that has the guts to go and have an actual conversation with the guy and invite him out is the one that will get his attention.
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