I have heard people say "his penis touched your vagina so you are not a virgin" so that would be vise-versa with a guy too then? Or is it as soon as you finger a girl or get a handjob as minimum?
who the hell made up the word virgin anyway?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? mitzi answered Saturday March 3 2007, 7:49 pm: I'm not sure. The first time I heard the word I was 6. My parents sent me to a privare Christian school. I heard the story of the virgin Mary. So the word has been around for a while. In the world we live in it's such a double standard for men and women. There is no way a dr. can tell if a man is a virgin unless he has some kind of VD but a dr. can tell if a woman is a virgin. So a man can always lie and say he's a virgin.
If a man's penis only touches but does not enter the vagina technically the woman is still a virgin. But you need to know that you can get crabs and herpes through skin to skin contact.
I'm not an ob/gyn but I think I tore my own hymen by using tampons though technically I was still a virgin cause it was a tampon and not a penis.
Safe sex always okay. No glove no love. I'll do all I can to answer any question you have about sex honestly with no BS as I am an adult and have shall we say experience. [ mitzi's advice column | Ask mitzi A Question ]
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