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my b/f...
14/f
How do you know if you actually like (teenage) love your boyfriend?? i think i love him but i dont know why i like him. My friend tried to help me and we made a list of 10 things but i like those things in all my exs and stuff... so my question is:
is there a way to find out why i love him?
And why I'm still with him??And if I even love him?
Any help would be great, and thanx in advance.
please help me!!!
XO~Michelle~OX
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Sometimes we are just drawn to certain people, even without the romance. We click with different guys and girls and seem to finish each other's sentences or could have fun for hours just hanging out with certain somebodys. What a great feeling to have those friendships and attractions that come easily. Of course, sometimes those sizzling hot attractions with the opposite sex end up fizzling out just as quickly if there is nothing more to them past the initial attraction to grow on. Are you drawn to him and don't know why? Sometimes we are attracted to a person because they have a familiar quality shared by someone in our life we value...even a crappy quality! Psychologists have been debating and trying to explain relationships for years, and there are many opinions and few real agreements. The reasons can be calculated and put under a microscope and some of our attractions really come from a biological and chemical source, but there is a mystery about love and those feelings that are bigger than we seem to be able to put in a box. Maybe that is why it is love...it is uncontainable. Don't analyze, just enjoy.
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in all honesty, only you can decide if you are in love with him. i personally think you'll know when you fall in love. it's the most wonderful, amazing, indescribable feeling in the world. you won't see any other person the same way you see him. so, it's a definite possibility that you love him. but then again it could just be the sort of love a step up from loving your friends. [which i really don't consider being in love, but that is loving someone.] ha, it's complicated. so it's mostly up to you.
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okay well love is a very complicated thing but you know when you feel it its like you can picture yourself with this person forever and they make you feel like no one else and could make you smile even when you feel like dying and you just feel it theres no true definition its what you feel inside and no one can take it from you ... and about the friends thing that okayy because remember friends are always first no matter what guys will come and go but friends are FOREVER. so love is complicated but if you fell it its amazing and just questioning whether you love someone shows you really care for them and may be heading in that direction.
-ash
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