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Discoloration of my vaginal lips and no regular fluids
The tips of my vaginal lips are turning brown, and for a couple weeks now I have been unable to make myself wet with direct stimulation. I've never had sex before, but I have used things to simulate it. I'm worried that something is wrong with me and I can't quite tell. A while ago I decided it would be a good idea to stick a brush handle up there and it had ridges. Unfortunately it hurt a lot (duh) and ever sense I have either had strange colored secretion, or no secretion at all. I'm not even sure if this is related, but my period comes at weird intervals now. I really hope you can help me out.
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First, don't worry. A lot of people have stuck weirder things in their vaginas than hairbrush handles. Some people have stuck bananas and cucumbers up there.
The change in color could be normal and due to hormone fluctuations, which correlate with your irregular periods. It could possibly be due to infection, though I doubt it. I don't know how old you are or what your menstrual history is, so I'm not sure, but since you said you're a virgin, I would tend to think you're in your teens.
I would suggest that you see a doctor, just to make sure there's nothing wrong. If you have to justify it to an adult, I'd say you should tell them you're having weird discharge and just want to speak with the doctor. If you can't see a doctor, then I just wouldn't worry TOO much about it unless you start getting spotty bleeding and/or abdominal pain or start running a fever or getting smelly discharge.
Then I would suggest that you get a "massager" vibrator. There are the kind that are really for sore muscles on your back or whatever. They nicely stiumlate the clitoris, which is where most women prefer to be stimulated. Then there are the vibrator-specific kind that go inside. They give a feeling of 'fullness' that a clitoral vibrator can't. They are more sanitary because they can be washed. Just be discrete, dear.
Good luck.
Sabine
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