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Confused about wat to do next
SAM 14/f
ok well i really like my friend Jesse who ive known since last yr but only recently we've become really close friends. but there are many problems. its a long story:
1st i liked him and i then i told him, he didnt seem to mind, actually he started acting really flirty: like hugs, putting his arm around me, things that you would do with a bf.
But then he told me he had problems with commitment, as in he doesnt want a gf. it was ok with me i didnt really care too much. but then i told my friend ashley that jesse liked me. even though he never said "i like you" i just assumed he did.
the next day he told me he was sorry but he didnt like me. so that really hurt but we were still friends all the same. a few weeks have passed and we started getting closer, like best friends, and he keeps flirting in the same ways as before. out of all his friends that are girls, im the one he seems to care most about. he only wants to hug me sometimes, stuff like that.
but the other day i heard from erika (one of his good friends) that he was always a big flirt with girls and that he doesnt like me. and then we talked about it and he said the same crap as before, about not liking me.
so now im just tired of being confused and so im trying to get over him, cuz its clear that jesse either cant decide wat he wants or just isnt interested....wats ur take on all of this?
thanx a bunch,
SAM
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Well I think you're doing the right thing by trying to get over him. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy who would be a very reliable boyfriend. However, there is no need to sever the relationship completly- try to stay friends. Mabye he'll get more mature and you guys can date later. Just don't let him use or abuse the friendship. Good luck!
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