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what do guys like about girls and dislike??


Question Posted Thursday March 1 2007, 4:04 pm

like what do guys dont like about girls..something that they do...or talk...like how to make your relationship actually last and make that person happy..and you know that person is mad about something but he doesnt really say it!!! you know what i mean??? but i just wanna make that person happy

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crash_TEST answered Friday March 2 2007, 5:18 pm:
What guys like in girls are basically these things here.
1. They like someone who can be funny.
2. Someone they can trust, and them being honest.
3. Smiles
4. There for them

But every guy likes different types of girls so some things that some guys like, other guys wont like

get what i mean?

Try talking to them if something is brothering them, to try to make a relationship is based on the couple sometimes the guy/girl may get bored with their partner, but try being more out there you know?

Do more things together keep him guessing about things but not to much, make him think "wow this chick is one amazing girl"

Try things that you havent tried before.

Hope i helped a little :)

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Xenolan answered Thursday March 1 2007, 5:20 pm:
It is impossible to give you specifics on what guys like about girls. Heck, some guys don't even prefer girls! It's like asking what people like about food; obviously, there are all kinds of preferences.

However, I can give you some very generalized advice, for what it's worth:

One thing about guys is that they like to solve their own problems; they go for help only when they've exhausted the possibilities of taking care of things themselves. If he's mad about something, and it has nothing to do with you, he may simply prefer to solve the problem on his own and not trouble you with it. However, you should still encourage him to be honest with his feelings and offer your support, because one day he will probably need to take you up on it and it will strengthen your relationship when that happens.

Now, if he's mad about something YOU did, then you deserve to know what it's about, and at times like those he should share his feelings and the reasons behind them even if he doesn't want to. On those occasions, do what you can to bring him out of the shell and encourage him to tell you why he is upset with you. If he just won't tell you, then he is not being fair to you and you should tell him so.

Open communication, honesty, and patience are the keys to any relationship - and that applies to things like friends and family as well as bf/gf or husband and wife. That keeps it alive, and it will keep it alive for the long term.

Keeping each other happy is more about consideration, affection, and empathy. The ways to show these things are numerous and varied, but the best thing you can do is simply be sincerely happy to be with your boyfriend, and show it in small ways like giving him an extra-affectionate kiss now and then, giving him space when he needs it and support when he needs that, and so on. Of course, it goes without saying that he must also be concerned with YOUR happiness, and show you in ways that you can understand.

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