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out of proportion
okay....i wanna know if i'm blowing this out of proportion...... my friend, who says shes my bff, likes the guy i like, and he likes her back. i was @ his house with her and something happened....i didnt find out until several days later when we were at lunch. she was talking about a convo he had with another friend of his and it ended up comming up in our convo. i asked her about it and she denied everything at first. then she said something to another friend of mine and they had a whole convo on it and didnt tell me anything. i got up and left the lunch table after accidently hitting her. i felt really bad about it and she kept dragging it on even when she knew i felt bad about it. she eventually told me after i flipped out on her. she says shes my bff, but she wouldnt tell me. am i blowing this out of proportion?
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i think you have the right to be a little ticked at her and she is your so-called BFF, then she should tell you. maybe you should ask her why she didn't tell you. maybe she didn't want to hurt you somehow or something but that still doesnt really give her the right to tell your other friend about it.
in any case though people have their own business and my bff and i don't get in eachtohers biz about stuff. if she doesn't want to tell me every bit of her life or something that happened i could really care less. same for me, i dont tell her everything. hardy! but i know she wouldn't not tell me and then tell someone else. yea i would be mad. especially if it sort of involved me somehow (like me liking the dude).
i personally have wanted to rip off another chicks head before but ive never gotten into a fight with anyone. never. like hitting and tackling eachother with a certain befriendliness is fine but im guessing you hit from anger which is not good. therefore i think hitting her was outting the situation out of proportion. but thats up to you.
down to the last hit/talk whatever yall are going to do to fix it, i think you should definately talk. conversing can go a long way.
hope i helped a little
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i don't think so. she is your best friend and she obviously knew that you liked the guy. But in the same way, she can't control her feelings nor the guy's, so she probably didn't want you to be hurt by it. Yes, she was wrong in not telling you, but I think she thought she was doing the right thing. Just sit down and talk it out with her. Tell her that regardless of how hurt you would've been by them getting together, it always hurts 10 times worse being lied to or left out by your best friend. i know this because i've been on both ends of the situation. No matter what is going on, the truth is the best way to go. It's bound to come out anyway.
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