Ok this guy likes me we'll call him Bob and i only like him as a friend and theres this guy that he's friends with that i liked for a while, we'll call him Frank, and Bob was IMing me and asking me why i liked Frank and everything and i feel bad because people make fun of Bob because he likes me and then like i like want a bf when me and my friends talk about it and then i dont and then i do and so on and like im so messed up and i just wanna straighten everything out beacuse i dont want Bob mad but i KINDA want Frank to like me what do i do?!?
Dont say talk 2 friends/ parents they wont help
pleaseee
:'(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xoLoLaox answered Tuesday February 27 2007, 8:48 pm: Ok, so first off, you have to put yourself in front of "Bob" & NEVER go out with someone because you feel bad for him...! EVER. You will be harming yourself and him as well. Also, think about how you feel about "Frank". If he asked you out would you date him? Then if you think you DO want to date him, go for it. Forget about "Bob" and start working on "Frank". Later, if you realize that you like "Bob", then go for him. All you need to do is think what you want. And when it comes to "Bob", try and see if any of your friends, classmates, etc. are interested in him and start talking about them to him, that way you are both happy.
Hope I helped! Let me know what happens, mk?
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