well, ktallo, since you give great advice, i thought that it might be nice cuz i need SERIOUS help on my friends boyfriend. See, she keeps telling me that he's a great guy and that he really cares. Supposedly, he sent her a gift from his vacation, and even called one of her friends to make sure for valentine's day that he didn't get her a gift she already had. So, she thinks that it shows that he cares. Although, he can be mean to her friends, and then she starts to not like him. Soemtimes, she even likes a diff guy like one%. Although, she says shes doesn't like this guy a lot, idk. I hope not. Please help me with advice to give her, or just for me to tell her! What should she do, this boyfriend of hers is IMPOSSIBLE to get in touch with, he has like no phone, and no sn! PLEASE HELP ME HELP HER! SHould she talk to him, dump him, or give him another chance because he cares
XoXo,
Friend for Life
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DaMasta17 answered Monday February 26 2007, 9:10 pm: Well, this is a pretty hard question to answer. Well, I would personally have her give him another chance. I wouldn't dump him because she still feels something there for him. If she talks to him right away, it might lead to some bad stuff. So if things get worse with her friends, have her talk to him or something to get her boyfriend to notice that she knows how mean he's being to her friends (did that make sense?). In other words, make sure he knows he's being mean to her friends and that she cares about them. If he continues and doesn't really even like him... I would break up, but only if she really feels she has to. I really hope I helped because I feel like that made no sense at all.
~KTallo:)
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