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Hey, my name's KTallo (nickname), and apparently I like to give advice!
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ok so i have these friends let's call them eitak and nosilla, they broke my lamp and now i don't have a lamp!!
what should i do now?

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Hey Jelly. Well, if you really didn't like it, don't worry about it. But you should know that they're probably willing to pay for it. Well, Eitak atleast.


hey ktallo. you sound like an understanding person. i am 14 and male and i am wondering if i am ready to have sex. there is a 16 yr old girl that i like and she is very specal. i like her very lot and she thinks were ready but im not shore yet. can you help me ktallo? by the way, what does ktalllo mean? it is kind of a wierd name if you know what I mean.

thank you
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Wait until you're totally sure. Like, COMPLETELY sure. Oh yeah, and KTallo is a mix of my first name and last name, but adding a letter, and then taking away one...


Hey! I need help. I was hoping to raise my grage in school. How can I do that? And once I have raised my grade, how could I keep it up? (link)
To raise your grade in school, you have to work a bit harder and pay closer attention. Reserve more time to study and start homework earlier. To keep it up, just stay on the same schedule and you'll be fine. Hope I helped!


Hello Everyone!!! My first track meet is tomorrow, can anyone give me any tips about what I should tonight and tomorrow while at the track meet. THanks in advance (link)
Hey, I'm in track too, and my favorite part is the meets. So don't worry about it. Before my meets I usually just lay low and rest. But right before you race or something, you probably want to take a warm up lap and stretch so you don't pull any muscles. Make sure you go to the bathroom too, ha ha. Dress for the weather too, because if you're pretty cold you won't be able to do anything as well as you could. Well, hope I helped.


well, ktallo, since you give great advice, i thought that it might be nice cuz i need SERIOUS help on my friends boyfriend. See, she keeps telling me that he's a great guy and that he really cares. Supposedly, he sent her a gift from his vacation, and even called one of her friends to make sure for valentine's day that he didn't get her a gift she already had. So, she thinks that it shows that he cares. Although, he can be mean to her friends, and then she starts to not like him. Soemtimes, she even likes a diff guy like one%. Although, she says shes doesn't like this guy a lot, idk. I hope not. Please help me with advice to give her, or just for me to tell her! What should she do, this boyfriend of hers is IMPOSSIBLE to get in touch with, he has like no phone, and no sn! PLEASE HELP ME HELP HER! SHould she talk to him, dump him, or give him another chance because he cares

XoXo,
Friend for Life (link)
Well, this is a pretty hard question to answer. Well, I would personally have her give him another chance. I wouldn't dump him because she still feels something there for him. If she talks to him right away, it might lead to some bad stuff. So if things get worse with her friends, have her talk to him or something to get her boyfriend to notice that she knows how mean he's being to her friends (did that make sense?). In other words, make sure he knows he's being mean to her friends and that she cares about them. If he continues and doesn't really even like him... I would break up, but only if she really feels she has to. I really hope I helped because I feel like that made no sense at all.
~KTallo:)
P.S. Tell me how things work out!


ok so it takes alot for me to get mad. liek seriously! well today i went to talk to my crush at lunch and he was with my friend and this group of guys who i talk to but arnt like friends. so im like hey and all..not going into details because it was HORRIBLE! to the point where i blew up. now heres the thing when iget mad...i get mad..and i blow up on the first person that talks to me. which is why when i get mad i normally walk away. but this time i didnt. and well i blew up on my crush. and then when i saw his face i just walked away because i got scared. like he was just in shock. like omg...that was unexpected. but he actually listened to what i said and normally he doesnt talk to me or listen. and i have no idea what i said! so yeah. what do i do know? (link)
Oh gosh, I am the SAME EXACT WAY. Like all my friends say I'm never mad. But once they get to know me, they have to think again. Ha ha. Anyway, when you get a chance to talk to him, say you're sorry for blowing up and that you were just having a really bad day. If he's nice, he'll totally understand. If you didn't blow up 100%, I would still let him know that you're sorry. But don't be a dramatic about it. Hope I helped!


I don't know what to do with my life. I'm not great at anything. Like..every person has something.. like great writing skills or a band... but I have nothing.

What am I supposed to do? (link)
A lot of people are born with amazing skills but don't know it until they try it. And other people get good at things after practicing a while. You might not have found that special skill yet. Or you might not have practiced enough to get good at it. So take some time to practice something for a while; something you've always wished you could do. Then if you enjoy doing it, keep practicing and you'll most likely end up a master at it. Hope I helped.


I have a problem. I can't cook! When my friend KT Hall was over we couldn't even make ice cream. It came out as liquid! I need help! How can I become a better cook? (link)
Well, when making ice cream, it really helps to actually freeze the container you put it in over night, not put it in the freezer for 10 minutes. Becoming a good cook takes a lot of practice and a lot of help from someone who actually does a lot of cooking.


I have a problem. My friend KT Hall says that Wisconsin is better then OSU, but she came to an OSU party at my house. She had fun, visiting Ian, and Jambalia. But if she doesn't like OSU and came to my OSU party. Then didn't she come just cause Ian, and Jambalie were there? (link)
No, she did not come just because Ian and Jordan were there. She came because you needed help rooting for your team because Jordan and Ian totally would have out ruled you. But she does think that Wisconsin is way better that OSU, even though OSU beat them in basketball (just BARELY though).


If my question is on the wrong category,sorry. I didnt know what category.
Anyway. I feel sad a lot. But when i'm at school or with friends or their family I try to hide. I have been goin through a tough time. But my dad is doin the best he can to make me happy. He doesnt really know that i'm sad...ALOT !! and i honestly dont know why either. But I am upset everyday. Yeah sure I have fun a lot but sad sososo much...
I dont think i have depression..but doesnt anyone have any idea...why i could always be feelin like this?
please answer as soon as you can
and thank you for readin this :]

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Hm, ya know this is a really tough question to answer, so don't blame me if it's not the best. Well, since you don't know why you're sad, you should have no reason to be sad. Tell yourself that you're NOT sad and try to let yourself have a good time. If you ever do find out why you're sad, just prevent the cause from happening. Remember, if something sounds fun to you, do it. Don't refuse to do fun things just becuase your sad.


In the house I live in with my family...I'm the one who does most, if not all the cleaning. My house is almost always a mess. I know I can't always clean the house when it needs cleaning. I'm sixteen, in 10th & I have a boyfriend now. It almost seems impossible sometimes to manage all that. Sometimes I feel like I don't have any parents, I have 2 middle aged kids...meaning my parents...not to mention my little brother (hes 14). I don't know what to do. My parents are always nagging me about my grades so I've been thinking of asking if we could make a little deal or comprimise...that if I were to keep my grades up...they would keep the house clean as much as they can. I don't even know how to ask that of them. I'm afraid they'll just think of some reason they won't be able to keep their side of the bargin. They are overweight. But not to the point they can't clean the house every once and a while when they get home from work. (link)
I love your idea of making the comprimise. Try that and if they say "sure" but they don't keep their side of the bargain, then try to switch of with your brother. Have him clean up for a while, then it's your turn. That way you won't have to do that much cleaning. I really hope I helpled.


i broke a leg. it hurts really bad. help me
by broken legger (link)
Hm, well, to be honest, I've never broken a bone, just sprained my pinky finger when my friend threw a football at it. ANYWAY, my finger would always hurt because I always over used it and never really gave it a rest. So really try leaving it alone, and don't poke at it. Lol. Hope I helped.


hello fellow person. i like to plant hibiscus. my boyfriends think its weird. will you please help me because i do not know what to do. i want to have a wonderful garden like in winnie the pooh. thank you

by garden mucher (link)
Well ALLISON, show him that hibiscus is NOT weird and that it's just another amazing flower.
P.S. Winnie the Pooh isn't real.


I'm in my last semester of college, and have my hardest class yet to complete. Lately I've been having 'senioritis.' I tend to procrastinate a lot; I do get things done eventually, but I really need to stay focused. I'll sit around and waste time, and before i know it, a couple of hours have passed by, and i haven't gotten much studying done.
Does anyone have any advice on good study skills? And maybe time management too.. Thanks :) (link)
Oh, I do the SAME exact thing. It's gotten so far that I have to sit in a small room with almost nothing to do in it besides my homework. I also have a problem with concentrating, where if I hear the tiniest noise, I can't work. So, my parents make me wear earplugs... It might sound weird, but it works! Also try to do your homework or studying right when you get back from school, because then you might not have to stay up to late and study or do your homework poorly.


i recently got in a fight with my friends -long storey not getting into it. i lost them all and i DONT want them back. any ways to make friends quick. im shy so that might get in the way. any advice.? (link)
This is what I would do: During school and when you're in a class if you have a question or something as someone you wouldn't usually ask, or ask for a pencil or a sheet of paper or something. A lot of the time you're making friends and you don't even know it. Don't worry about being shy!


alright well i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm like 5'5 about 126 lbs. i want to lose like 20 pounds by summer and i think its going to be impossible. i go to the gym at least 5 times a week but i can't seem to have the displine to eat right. i really don't. can someone help me tell me how i can adviod those foods? my friends do not diet but i wanna look amazing this summer and i'm going to a new school. just i need something to keep me from eating badly. (link)
Well, I am also a crazy eater, and to avoid eating when I'm not even hungry, I chew gum to destract me!




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